Hello I am trying to create a debian package of a program I wrote bundled with a library. Since I am using special flags to compile the library I only want to provide the library for my program. While I can do so using the runpath I am not sure were to put the library. lintian complains about /opt, /lib or /usr/lib is wrong since I do not want to replace the debian packaged version of the librarycompiled with different flags.
I do not want to use static linkage. Where should I put my library file?