A wide FM transmission in a narrow FM receiver is effectively overmodulation: the excessive deviation of the transmitter results in the instantaneous frequency of the transmission deviating outside the bounds of what the receiver is designed for.
A practical FM receiver will pass the signal through a channel filter before demodulation. The objective of this filtering is to remove adjacent signals and noise, while passing the desired signal with minimal distortion. Theoretically FM results in an infinitely wide spectrum, but Carson's rule can be used to estimate the channel bandwidth where most of the signal energy exists:
$$ \text{channel bandwidth} = 2(\Delta f + f_m) $$
$\Delta f$ is the peak frequency deviation, and $f_m$ is the highest frequency component in the baseband input. For narrow FM, $\Delta f$ will typically be 5 kHz or less, and for voice communications $f_m$ will be 4 kHz or less. The choice of these parameters will dictate the design of the receiver's channel filter and minimum channel spacing.
If the deviation is excessive, as would be the case with a wide FM transmitter and a narrow receiver, the receiver's filter will truncate the FM sidebands. Because FM is a nonlinear operation this distorts the demodulated baseband audio in a nonlinear way, and the result is some pretty nasty sounding distortion at the receiver.